What fits a love affair between a woman scorpio with Libra man?
Suggestion by Ramona
what are you asking exactly? When I think of that relationship I imagine a shooting star. Its bright, its there, then its gone.
Suggestion by ¸¸.·´°¤ AnnA ¤°`·.¸¸
devoted >< flirtatious = created hell!
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Scorpio man Libra woman?
Alright heres the deal, best friends for awhile now, hes in the Marines currently doing Drill Instructor duty. 18 hr days very little sleep. 6 week break inbetween 4 month stints of 24/7 duty.
Wont commit to say we are dating bc he cant juggle his job and a relationship or so he says, yet the relation we have now is basically dating with no title.
Refers to me as his “someone very special” to him. Just doesnt want the strings bc of his job.
I’ve stopped all intimacy (kissing, sex, etc.) out of respect to my own feelings.
He respects my decision to stop all that in order to protect myself from being hurt. He has hurt me when he first told me no relationship will be happening at this time, I pulled away, he very franticly told me “Im sorry; you’re someone very special to me; i dont want to hurt you; im sorry(again) etc..”
He remains very sweet, and loving. Always very comforting when Im around him. Massages, touches my face, strokes my hair, etc. He makes me feel indescribable. I love when he does all this stuff, its just limited now because I feel like he might be just trying to ‘have his cake and eat it too’ almost. He may be scorpio but hes still a man. I will not be someone convienient fuck buddy.
Unwilling to share me with anyone to a point. Says hes not asking me to wait for him but when I brought up a certain topic he was very much close minded and very short. His answers deemed him very UNWILLING to share if he can help it.
Openly has said he would like to be with me.
Basically my question is: how the hell does one navigate this? lol please help me. This may sound really dumb to some but im very confused between his actions and words not matching up.
I love my best friend dearly, I’d love to see where this could go in the terms of dating but if I start seeing someone else in the future, i feel like he will be very quiet, cold and unresponsive to me; if not that then he will constantly be checking in and asking me questions about who im seeing/probing my relationship. I know him enough to suspect he will do one or the other. He’s usually such a black and white person. I feel like im the gray area :/
I dont want to push him away or make him jealous. He knows I value him an exceptional amount and I’ll support him through whatever. He has never failed or faultered on me and I do my best to return that favor. I am very loyal. I just dont know where to go from here.
Part of me wants to disappear for awhile but the other part of me wants to just give in and give that affection i want to give him. Ugh help! I guess I want to disappear because Im interested to see how he reacts. I know not to play games with him because i KNOW he can play them better but he’d basically be getting his own medicine. Is that wise?
From what I hear scorpio like to “test” loyalty and depth of the people they like…could that be partly what he is doing with the mixed signals apart from the whole duty thing. I get that part but hes hot and cold with me.
Suggestion by Isabelle
I don’t think there is nothing to do with horoscopes with this matter.
Libra is known to be flirtatious while Scorpio enjoys the Libran’s company and play along with the Libran’s ‘game’. I think that Libra’s can be as much as bestfriends with Scorpio but nothing more because they both find it hard understanding each other in terms of love. However, once Scorpio gains Libras trust and vise versa, they become very close friends but unlikely lovers.
I really don’t understand what you’re asking…
Also, in astrology, we don’t focus on the Sun signs but we focus on the moon sign and 7th house in terms of love, relationship and marriage.
Suggestion by SaggiMC
sorry hon, but I’m NOT interested in life stories or loyaly tests I need to SEE charts, like any Prof astrologer would and its upto YOU to create and post them!
Synastry doesn’t work off *signs* but the mathematical aspects they make to another’s chart. So synastry (chart comparisons) compares ALL 10planets, Ascendant, Midheaven, Juno, Vertex, Nodes, Part of fortune. so failing no chart appearing you will have to do some research yourself and this is where I come in, for no charge whatsoever (just because I love astrology and this is MY vocation) I will walk you through astrological techniques you are asking about
In a man’s chart we look at venus and moon, then planets in 7th house the signs/aspects, in the absent of planets then the ruler of 7th house ‘traits’, where it’s placed and aspected.
In a woman’s chart we look at sun and mars, then planets in 7th house the signs/aspects, in the absent of planets then the ruler of 7th house ‘traits’, where it’s placed and aspected.
its upto YOU to create and post charts not us here…if you don’t know how then I’m going to explain and then show you pictorially how
How to approach Synastry
Go to astro.com and get FREE charts and synastry bi wheel, found in extended chart selection. Please remember to reduce the orb ratio down to 40% (ONLY for synastry bi wheel) as the max orb between planets is 3′ Please also include, vertex, juno and POF (part of fortune). To add Juno & Vertex bottom left tick boxes and pls don’t tick any options to add additional objects as this adds to many lines
when you get this SYNASTRY chart, please also post the aspect grid found on *pdf file*, above left of chart look for *view additional tables (PDF)* This will bring up 2pages. Scroll down to last page for the *ASPECT GRID* THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT AS IT SEEMS TO SHOW MORE ASPECTS THAN IS VISIBLE ON THE BI WHEEL…
problem is uploading to photobucket (or imageshack) you have to change this from Abode format into a picture/jpeg format. This is done by getting the relevant page/grid in front of you on screen then, the press ‘prtsc sysrq’ – top row inbetween pause break and F12. This has been copied to clipboard. Paste (Ctrl V) into Paint or some other photo software. Crop the picture and save to hard drive, then upload to photobucket, select chart, press ‘direct link’ and past link into thread…. all done
how to post synastry charts on YA shown pictorially
Do not make the mistake of copy/pasting from address bar as the links will disappear
IF and when you get the bi wheel and aspect grid, create a new thread and PM the link pls? If you find all this bit daunting but still want to learn a little synastry to go my homepage and there are 3links to explain matters.
The problem with the limited information you have given is, there are 10planets not just one or two you have mentioned and if you have a harsh/hard aspect from Saturn, Uranus, Neptune and Pluto to your personal planets it *will* make matters decidedly tricky if not impossible to overcome. So this is why I ask for charts, plus it shows me if you really want answers or are just lazy and curious… I don’t ask for this information lightly but are ‘you’ asking lightly? or do you want a fully informed astrological answer?
So broadly speaking then, if mutable on the angles ie: Ascendant/Descendant (pisces,Gemini,virgo, Saggi) this indicates more than one marriage. Mutable on the Midheaven suggests more than one career. Mutable moons are *capable* of loving more than one person at the same time
the Angles (Ascendant/ Descendant) in synastry are THE most important, IF within 3′ max orb, so if mars, venus, (pluto), jupiter, mercury, moon – all the personal planets except pluto.
But really its the Ascendant *signs* that attract and cause the chemistry, lust and attraction factor to get things started and moving in the first place. Of couse not everyone knows their TOB and this complicates matters further.
Personally, I wouldn’t like to have pluto involved in synastry as it could be destructive, intense, manipulative, obsessional, demanding and contain power struggles galore.
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Libra Man/Scorpio Woman…please answer question or compare our synastry? Thanks!! :)?
Been dating a Libra man for 5 months or so….I was coming out of dating someone when he and I started talking, I’ve been married for 5 years, divorced for 3 years, have two children….I’m 33. He’s 35, never been married, no kids, never lived with anyone. Both have good careers….so I told him on the front end that I am looking for a relationship, someone to grow old, settle down with, have a family with etc…he said he was looking for the same. So we started dating…he has since been the first to tell me he loves me, he’s brought up marriage in half joking/half serious ways, talks about co-habitation, etc…and I love him too, and want to marry him too, and when he says these things, I take it half seriously, half with a grain of salt. The reason I do that is b/c I notice that he says these heavy emotional things and then re-tracts. Two steps forward, once step back. He’s told me he’s afraid of getting hurt by me (I did think he was lying/cheating at one point, and initially, being so protective and cautious, I was suspicious and then told him if he was that I was done…of course, he came back immediately and said that there was nothing wrong, but is afraid I will leave again). The back and forth thing is confusing to me, only because I don’t know what he wants. He still tells me he loves me to death, and he has been gone out of state to visit his family for the holidays, he’s been gone for almost two weeks, including for NYE, but we keep in close contact via text, emails, phone calls etc. Saying I love and miss you every day. He told me he really wasn’t going out for NYE, I went to a friend’s house party…and when it was 2012 I sent him a text saying “Happy New Years!!” and he sent one back saying, “Happy New Years future Mrs ____!!!” which I thought was sweet, and I sent one back saying, “Awwww :* :* :*” . Well, later, he sent one to me saying Happy New Years, which I missed because it was two hours time zone difference, then 20 minutes later he sent me a text saying, “Sorry for the text earlier :(” !!! I sent one back saying “Why are you sorry?!?! You better not be, lol. I hope you aren’t reneg on the Mrs status, I loved that!” No reply. Then I sent him a text asking if he was ok, why was he quiet, no reply. Granted, that was last night, he’s prob not even awake yet, but I guess my point of question is…why are Libra’s so indecisive and how do I deal with it. Should I take him seriously or not?
His Rising sign Aquarius
Me: Rising Virgo
Suggestion by the man
im soo f king mad at this world new year eve chillen with those pussy azz nikkahs ..they are sooo pussy out cant even hang with me with out walking 15 feet ahead then they sold out ..what a punk …idgaf ….and …2012 better be good cause im not f kking around with these pussys
Suggestion by Blake
sarry i didn’t read the whole thing. (its too long)
but i will tell u that a Libra Man/Scorpio Woman couple is quite unusual. it’s not a bad match but Scorpios tend to be very emotional and have fits of jealousy, and the Libra may get scared and want to leave because of this. other than that they have a pretty good understanding of each other.
scale of 1 to 5—3
Suggestion by cosmickisses2u
A synastry chart are the aspects in relationship to both charts. You did not provide enough information (both his and yours exact time of birth), for a synastry reading.
But he does have his Venus in Scorpio which would explain the initial attraction to your sun/Venus Scorpio.
Your moon/Sag is squared his moon/pisces which might cause friction.
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